247. GOD IS LOVE
O God, who are love, make me know and believe in your love (1 Jn 4:16)
“God is love” (1 Jn 4:16), eternal, infinite, substantial love, just as everything in God is beautiful, good, perfect, and holy, so everything in God is love: his beauty, holiness, wisdom, truth, omnipotence and even his justice are love. Love in God is the eternal act of his will, a most holy, perfect act, because it is always directed to the sovereign Good; this is the love with which God loves himself, precisely because he is the one supreme and eternal Good, to which no other good can be preferred. The holy and infinite love which God has for himself has nothing in common with what we call self-love or egoism, that disordered love by which we prefer ourselves to God.
We are selfish because we tend to love ourselves to the exclusion of every other affection; but God is so free from every shadow of egoism that, even though he loves himself infinitely and is wholly satisfied with his infinite good, he wills to diffuse his love and his good outside himself. It is thus that God loves creatures; his love is at the root of their being, for by loving them, he calls them into existence, by loving them he creates good in them.
“The love of God”—says St. Thomas—“is the cause which infuses and creates good in creatures” (1,20,2). God loves with a love that is entirely gratuitous, free, and supremely pure, with a love that is at the same time benevolence which desires our good, and beneficence which does us good. By loving us God calls us to life, infuses grace in us, invites us to holiness, draws us to himself, and gives us a share in his eternal happiness. Everything we are and have is the gift of his infinite love.
As Vatican II affirms: “Man would not exist were he not created by God’s love and constantly preserved by it. And he cannot live fully according to truth unless he freely acknowledges that love and devotes himself to his Creator” (GS 19);
“I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you” (Jer 31:3). We were nothing, but God already saw us and loved us and wanted us; his love has gone before him from all eternity. No creature could exist if God had not preceded it with his love: “You love all things that exist”—says sacred Scripture—“and loath nothing of the things which you have made; for you would not have made anything if you had hated it. How would anything have endured, if you had not willed it, or how would anything not called forth by you have been preserved?” (Wis 11:24-25).
The story of our life is the story of God’s love for us. This story, once begun, never ends because God’s love has no end; sin alone, which is the rejection of divine love, has the sad possibility of interrupting it. But of himself, God loves with an infinite, eternal, immutable and most faithful love; he himself desired to express it most tenderly: “Can a woman forget her suckling child, that she should have no compassion on the son of her womb? Even these may forget, yet I will not forget you” (Is 49:15).
God loves us when he consoles us, but he also loves us when he afflicts us with sorrow; his graces and his consolations are love, so too are his trials and chastisements, “for the Lord reproves him whom he loves, as a father the son in whom he delights” (Prov 3:12). In all the circumstances of life, even the saddest and most painful, we are always encompassed by divine love, which can will nothing but good, and therefore God infallibly wills our good even when he leads us by the harsh rough road of suffering. Furthermore, it is not rare for God to strike hardest those whom he loves most, “for. . . acceptable men [are tried] in the furnace of humiliation” (Sir 2:5). St. Teresa of Jesus writes: “See . . . what [suffering] he gave to the one he loved most [Jesus]. . . . These are his gifts in this world. He gives according to the love he bears us: to those he loves more, he gives more of these gifts; to those he loves less, he gives less” (Way 32:7). Even when racked with pain, the true Christian does not waver in his faith, but repeats: “we know and believe the love God has for us” (1 Jn 4:16).